Let’s talk about something that doesn’t get posted much: the messy part of growth.
It’s not always aesthetic. It’s not always inspiring. Sometimes, growth looks like questioning everything you once believed, outgrowing what used to excite you, or standing still while everyone else seems to be moving forward.
But what if I told you that the discomfort you're feeling right now is not a setback—it's a signal?
Real Growth Isn’t Glamorous
There’s a version of success that gets posted online: clean white walls, sold-out services, perfect skin, booked-and-busy energy. But the version we live behind the scenes? It’s much more layered.
Growth is:
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Saying “no” to things you used to say “yes” to—even when it makes you feel guilty.
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Raising your prices and holding your breath.
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Outgrowing relationships that no longer align with your mission.
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Crying in your car after a long day… and still showing up the next.
If that’s where you are right now, I see you.
And more importantly, I’m right there with you.
3 Reminders When Growth Gets Uncomfortable
1. Discomfort is a Sign You’re Expanding
If you’re not being stretched, you’re probably standing still. Growth doesn't happen in comfort zones. It shows up in the “this doesn’t feel like me anymore” moments.
2. You’re Allowed to Evolve Without Announcing It
We live in a world where everyone’s chasing big reveals and public wins. But sometimes, your evolution is sacred. You don’t have to explain it. You just have to honor it.
3. Your Future Self Will Thank You
Every boundary you set, every decision you make in faith, every time you choose growth over comfort—it’s not wasted. You’re building a future that’s aligned, sustainable, and fulfilling.
A Personal Note From Me to You
I’m coming up on three months of marriage. My business is evolving in ways I never expected. And behind the scenes, I’m being stretched in ways I didn’t think I was ready for.
But I’ve learned that real growth doesn’t wait for the “perfect time.” It shows up when you decide you’re ready for more—even when you’re scared.
So if you’re in a growth season that feels heavy, confusing, or isolating, let this post remind you: You’re not failing. You’re transforming.
Keep going. Even when it’s not pretty. Especially then.